recognising this, you can't then say that intentionally manipulated efforts to cancel some1 off an invalid case are not that deep / not social abuse cos of technicalities, cos you're then saying the abuser is allowed to attend a convention when he is the reason the victim can't?

fleegar

@shoutplenty

1 key thing i realised about the pattern of social abuse denialism among the sms mods and the argument that online abuse isn't serious (the latter was thankfully roundly rejected) is that there's a contradiction in how online relationships/community are seen wrt mental hlth [1/7]

7/27/2024, 2:36:59 AM

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@shoutplenty

it's seen in 2022 1upsforlife that online friends are almost all she valued in her life, and this outlook is substantiated somewhat by the outpouring of love at early PACE events that was kinda jarring to those observing who were better-adjusted irl. clearly people live for these

7/27/2024, 2:37:00 AM

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@shoutplenty

recognising this, you can't then say that intentionally manipulated efforts to cancel some1 off an invalid case are not that deep / not social abuse cos of technicalities, cos you're then saying the abuser is allowed to attend a convention when he is the reason the victim can't?

7/27/2024, 2:37:00 AM

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@shoutplenty

one of the moderators clearly gets it (despite being a fencesitting centrist about actually doing anything about it)

7/27/2024, 2:37:01 AM

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@shoutplenty

r.e. social abuser at convention: this is jpep. the "invalid case" is over a mean letter i sent someone that that person didn't report and doesn't consider abuse. the cancellation succeeded bc the moderators hid all the evidence and engaged victim-protection rhetoric

7/27/2024, 2:37:02 AM

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@shoutplenty

jpep's involvement is alleged here https://shoutplenty.netlify.app/case/sms/me/jpitar/ and in part a of https://shoutplenty.netlify.app/case/sms/me/id/. he didn't answer either and is hiding from the active sms community atm. nobody knows what will be done about him. but the photo is for awareness, not a call to harass him

7/27/2024, 2:37:02 AM

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@shoutplenty

real talk tho i do not get how the hell somebody gets away with smth like this for 2 years. what the fuck is going on [7/7]

7/27/2024, 2:37:03 AM

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