i think maybe the *crux* of where i lost the game is that it’s considered socially acceptable to use plausible deniability to cover for dubious behaviours<br><br>this works on two levels:

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i think maybe the *crux* of where i lost the game is that it’s considered socially acceptable to use plausible deniability to cover for dubious behaviours

this works on two levels:

9/23/2023, 3:33:14 PM

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one being institutional, sms mods using new secret allegations vs me to cover for previous debunked secret allegations

the other being personal, with former best-friend 1upsforlife using silence to cover support of the above and of someone who abused and now bullies me

9/23/2023, 3:37:28 PM

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so it comes down to how ppl tolerate deliberate secrecy, non-engagement, not facing up to harm, this pursuit of plausible deniability, in the name of self-interest or cancel-culture

and for me, whether i choose to play the game of forming relationships in a life that’s like that

9/23/2023, 3:37:51 PM

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